8 steps for socially awkward Clients
1. 1. Check my Enjoys list on AdultWork so you don’t
have to cringe through asking me if I want to do that secret thing you’re into
only to have me say “not really”. This is a social awkwardness nightmare
scenario you do not need to risk. You do not need an AdultWork account to do
this. I’m actually quite shy myself about listing all the specific sex acts I
enjoy in one place, but I have to on AdultWork to allow clients to search for
me, so that’s the place to look if you making a booking depends on my wanting
to do that one special thing you’re into. If it’s not listed there… then you
have your answer.
2.
2. Get to know my personality and desires in
advance via this blog, Twitter and my Wishlist. You can subscribe to the blog
for free and follow me on Twitter to get updates. And yes, browse my Wishlist,
even if you have no intention of buying anything: what’s on there tells you a
lot about me and might give you something to chat about. Perhaps you like that restaurant/ spa treatment/ movie star too!
3. 3. If seeing someone you fancy naked for the first time makes you feel overwhelmed, you can have that moment alone and in advance using the wonders of the internet. I have a couple of nudes on my website, misslillywatson.com, and lots and lots of them on my OnlyFans account, which is free to subscribe to (although the nudes themselves are mostly paywalled). If you already know what I look like naked when we meet, you are more likely to look like Mr Cool (or at least, Mr Dignified) when you see the view in person.
So. It turns out I’m just as into roleplay, face-sitting, water sports, caning or kissing as you are. My web presence makes me seem like someone you’d want to know. You’ve seen me naked and you’re into it. You are going to have to talk to me. If you are ready to email and ask me out, great! If you're not quite there yet, then continue reading...
4.
4. You can start by IM-ing. It’s like
texting: silent, less pressure, you get time to re-read my replies and retype
your own a couple of times before sending. Better than texting, you know that
if I’ve logged in for IM-ing then I am definitely in the mood to chat to
someone. And if you feel overwhelmed, you can just log out and take a breath. I’ll
assume your internet connection went down. You can IM me via my AdultWork profile
when I’m logged in (it’s free to open an account if you don’t already have
one).
5.
5. Do a meet and greet over the phone via
AdultWork. It’s a steppingstone between IM-ing and meeting in person. It is
less of a commitment than meeting in a bar or café and therefore socially
easier. No-one can tell over the phone if you’ve written yourself a list of
notes to remind you what to say. Furthermore, if you feel yourself starting to
panic and can’t get it under control, you can hang up anytime and I will assume
your credits ran out (it happens). You can call and call again as often as you
like, whenever I’m logged in.
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So. We’ve talked to each other. We had a good chat. We seem to get on. You’re going to have to ask me out. Again, if you are ready to email and ask me out, great! If you're still not quite there yet, then continue reading...
6.
6. Use my Date Inspiration page to frame up an
attractive date proposal e-mail that you can feel confident I’ll say yes to. You know
for sure that I love that bar or restaurant and will definitely want to go
there. You know for sure that I definitely like that Companion and will want to
have a threesome with her. Assuming you can provide references from other
companions and a deposit, your chances of rejection at this point are practically zero.
7.
7. If you want to bring a gift but are the sort of
person who awkwardly throws presents at people or can’t seem to perfect the
timing for when to hand it over, you can send a Wishlist gift via the post or email instead of
bringing it in person. You can add a little note, or not; either way, it’s not
weird.
8.
8. You can do advance prep before meeting to boost
your sense of confidence and calm. A yoga or gym session, a full body massage,
a good night’s sleep, a haircut and professional shave, a mani-pedi, a trip to
the hygienist to have your teeth cleaned, new underwear, a little manscaping, get your favourite suit dry cleaned, and so forth. Each of these seemingly insignificant
details can subconsciously positively affect a lady’s regard for you, give you
ways to expel nervous energy, and increase your confidence.
When we meet, I do everything I can to help you feel supported
and relaxed. My incall has a lovely bar attached where we can start the
conversation by discovering each other’s favourite cocktails or mocktails. If public spaces
like bars tend to overwhelm you, we can retire straight to the room and open a
bottle of wine together. A glass of something nice certainly helps me to unwind!
Making full and thorough use of the shower relaxes muscle tension
and will dispel any lingering worries about body odour or bad breath for both of
us.
You can book me for just two hours, if the
thought of longer bookings gives you that over-anxious, overwhelmed feeling.
After a few two-hour bookings, you might feel ready to book for longer, but if you never do, it’s okay.
I very occasionally can do one-hour meetings for
the very shy or anxious, which you can leave at any time without having to give
a reason (as long as you don’t try to retrieve that envelope). I keep the
lights dimmed, the curtains closed and the wine chilled. Let’s do that secret
thing you like.
I am an elegant, affectionate, sensual hedonist and elite, discreet dating companion... a blonde, ultrafeminine and authentically kinky English rose. I like to laugh, smile, flirt and play, whether for a moment’s welcome escape, a wild afternoon or an opulent evening for two… anywhere 5* between London and Devon. If you would like to comment on this post or arrange a date, please email misslillywatson@protonmail.com.
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