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The people described below are composites and not representative of any single individual.
David works full-time as a consultant in multiple busy hospitals, coaches an under-12s rugby team and raises two teenagers with his partner, who also works full-time as a trauma nurse. David describes himself as "stressed out and exhausted" and acknowledges his tendency to overstretch himself. He worries about work, his relationship and the effect his kids leaving for university will soon have on it. He feels anxious, has trouble sleeping and has gained more weight than he would like from stress-eating. This seems to have coincided with him taking longer than usual to come, sometimes hours, which adds to his stress. Sometimes he feels trapped in his life and takes it out on his partner, then feels wracked with guilt and shame afterwards. In this context especially, and given how many years they have been together, he feels he now cannot risk telling her that he wants to dominate her in the bedroom. They don't have sex very often, especially since it started taking him a couple of hours every time, and he's worried that would put her off altogether.
Mark is young and single and the manager of a branch of a well-known supermarket chain. His ex-wife Catherine moved out six months ago and although he feels it was the right thing for both of them, he is having trouble meeting someone else on the dating apps. It seems like everyone wants to get married and have children. Ideally, Mark would prefer to enjoy the typical first stages of a conventional relationship forever: fun, intimacy, dating, light-heartedness, drinks, no strings, perhaps the odd weekend away at most; but he feels deeply discouraged about the likelihood of meeting someone special who wouldn't want more than this. His friends tell him that there are plenty of women out there who want part-time relationships, but Mark hasn't met any of them. He also hasn't told his friends that he's been looking at new porn since Catherine left, and now wants his next girlfriend to dress him up in women's lingerie and dominate him instead of having penis-in-vagina sex.
Richard is in his early 60s and in the process of retiring after a successful career in the City. He has three grown-up children with his wife of thirty years, a retired English teacher who now writes novels and takes care of their social schedule, most of which revolves around meeting up with their children. Richard isn't anxious about retirement because he will still do the occasional day of consulting in London, where he can catch up with his old workmates, go to his favourite bars and restaurants and enjoy the contrast to his idyllic countryside home in Hertfordshire. However, he does sometimes feel as if his trips to London are not just work trips, but temporary escapes. His mother-in-law is unwell and requires a lot of care, and although he and his wife enjoy each other's company, they haven't had sex since she passed through the menopause. She is very content with their life, which makes him feel resentful but also guilty for wanting more. They are both from an orthodox religious background and she is still a believer, which makes him feel he cannot raise the topic of opening up the marriage so that he can have a sex life again while he is still able.
David the stressed out doctor started seeing a companion called Mia after reading her blog about how she liked to be dominated not by bullies but by masculine, protective men in a reciprocal partnership of equals. It was as if she was speaking to him directly. Taking hours to come is no longer an issue as he always books three hours or so. He has enjoyed living out his roleplaying fantasies in the bedroom with Mia, caring for her as a protective dominant with gifts, and on one memorable occasion, playing in a professional dungeon with her and her switchy girlfriend. Afterwards they all giddily went for cocktails. Getting to know the girls better over champagne and bar snacks, seeing how sparklingly happy they were in their lives and how comfortable they were with him, made David realise he had been carrying around a lot of unfounded guilt. He noticed almost immediately that letting go of some of that guilt took a lot of his other tensions with it. He still takes his work and relationship seriously, but increasingly recognises that no-one can "do it all". It made him wonder what else he could outsource. Now he has enlisted two other parents to help coach the kids' rugby team, which means he gets an extra night off every week to have some alone time in the gym to decompress. His sleep is better and although he hasn't lost weight yet, he has already gained muscle and looks years younger.
Mark, the supermarket manager looking for a meaningful part-time relationship, followed a chain of links from a sissy website one night and ended up discovering Kinky London Escorts. Having read all the profiles and made a short list of the dominant ladies whose photos caught his eye, he met a different one every other month for a year on what he describes as a "voyage of discovery." He clicked with a lady called Rose in particular and is currently saving up and planning the itinerary for a 24-hour date in London with her, which will include bringing his new sissy lingerie collection for fun in the hotel room. Rose is married and has a young son, which helps Mark relax in the knowledge that she is truly content in having a light-hearted, no-strings, all-fun part-time relationship and is genuinely not looking for "more" with him.
Richard the retired banker with the lapsed religious upbringing got recommended a website called Tryst one night over drinks in London with an old work colleague. He contacted the most sober and professional-sounding lady he could find on it and very nervously invited her to afternoon tea during his next work trip to London. He and Charlotte really hit it off and he extended the date by inviting her to his hotel room on the spot. Since then, they meet for lunch and intimacy on most of his work trips to London. Charlotte is much more plugged in to the current London dining scene than he is and is always suggesting interesting new restaurants that he's never heard of. He discovered on that first day that for him, the experience of chatting over food is part of the foreplay because it helps him to relax, and taking in the attractive way she talks and moves starts his mind fantasising about what is to come later. It feels strangely comforting to learn that something as innocent as lunch with the right person can feel sexy. These days, Richard's trips to London feel less like escapes and more like relaxing indulgences to be enjoyed. Caring for his mother-in-law is still challenging but always having a date to look forward to helps him manage the pressure and have more energy left over for socialising with his wife and children. His feelings of resentment have evaporated now that his overall needs are being met and he can embrace his precious family relationships for what they are instead of wishing they were different.
Everyone has a story. Some are complex, some achingly simple.
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